To be sure a girl you must first be a self-confident woman. Although it seems insecure and scared some men may use protection because they can be, but most men do not like insecure women.
When a woman is not sure it will be constantly worrying about losing her man and become very possessive off. You can always question him and want to know where he is and what he's doing all the time and a man will soon become tired of this. Instead, it is better to be safe, smart and independent, and he will be proud to be your man.
There are men who are bullies and mistreat their girlfriends and usually this happens because the man is insecure. They tried to hide their insecurities of being in control of the relationship and the woman. They think that if they are in control then they are more than a man. If you have a man like this then can not react well to your change if you become independent and confident, but if a man is like this then you need to ask if it is really the man you want to spend your life with.
If you feel that you are insecure and get very jealous then there are some questions you should ask yourself in order to become more confident.
Why are you so jealous? There is a reason to be jealous? Your boyfriend has betrayed and caused the loss of confidence in him? Your boyfriend flirting with other girls just to make you jealous? You have been betrayed by a boyfriend before? Or are you only an insecure person and always have been?
You must ask yourself these questions and find out the reason of jealousy and insecurity. Only when you find the reason you can solve the problem. You may need a consultant for a while 'to work through your insecurities and learn to be confident and happy with your life and your relationship.
When you know why your insecurities, whether it's something that has happened in the past or whether they are from something that your boyfriend is doing, when you know the reason so you can fight your insecurities and become more confident in you themselves.
In some cases it may have been confident in the past, but for some reason have become insecure in your relationship. This can happen if you and your boyfriend are on different planes when it comes to relationships. You may feel that you love him more than he loves you or do you need him more than he needs you. If you have these feelings, then it is natural that you begin to feel insecure.
These insecurities can look into the problem and when you know they are insecure he can not begin to love you or need you. Sometimes it can be a big misconception that you believe that you love him more than he loves you and if you talk with him about it you may find that it is not the case. If you can learn to be confident again, then it will once again trust the person who first fell in love and this can bring back the spark and love in the relationship.
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